I was in a relationship with someone who was not in the greek system and he got very jealous when I would go to mixers and other such things because he did not understand that they were not for "hooking up". I took him to some of my stuff (formal, grab-a-date, crush party, etc and he really really liked it, but there was still always this problem with the fact that I knew so many guys and I was friends with them. Long story short, I dated a fraternity guy after him and I am now engaged to the fraternity guy. It really all depends on the person though. Some people are adults about it and some just aren't. Also, you should consider the downside to dating another greek...people tend to get in your business since they think that it is a chapter to chapter thing...hard to explain unless you've been there. Best to keep your relationship really private unless you want everyone in your business!
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