While I am an Alum, I hve been to several Chapters and met many of the guys and find them great!
I attended one of our Regional Conclaves and met Brothers from 12 schools from as far west as Wyoming U. to N Illinois and points inbetwee.! God what a great bunch of guys! I try to build relationships no matter what house i visit! and there are a few in close distance to KC. We are all related in a since as we went through our respective Rituals and have a common bond whether we know each other or not!
As in life we are all somewhat different!