This issue has just been discussed by some of my sisters and me today! We are geographically separated by at least 2 hours from every chapter, and that chapter is at WVU. We *love* those girls! Their chapter is very similar to our demographically (is that the word I'm looking for? Who knows?LOL)...we have the same problems and the same successes.
When our delegates go to Convention or NLC, they say that all of the sisters from other chapters are great and really nice. However, we often find ourselves intimidated by the women in a top ten chapter with 180 people, with the Homecoming Queen, cheerleaders, beauty queens, yadda yadda yadda.... (No specifics in mind, but I'm know that they exist!)
I find comfort in the fact that even thought I might not know these women, they are my sisters and on their campus they are doing the KD letters proud!