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I know someone who depledged my sorority because she didn't feel that it was her home and the following year pledged the group that she did feel was her home. Gtown is a small place and we all know each others business. But no one thought the lesser of her. NOW when she was rerushing the following year, it was weird having her at our events because we knew that she didn't want us. But it was okay for all... we got her twin sister instead.
The reason the other girls may not want you to rerush is because they think that you didn't want their group. Are you open to the group you depledged or was it like my groups situation where you didn't want to be an ABC?
If you are open to the old group, then let them know... but expect to be cut from them right away. I would tell you to rush again and follow your heart. IF your friends are your friends then they will be your friends even if you rerush and pledge a different group. Also be ready to answer questions on why you depledged ABC and why you think that you are ready to pledge XYZ this time.
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"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own!" ~Matthew 6:34
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