[lil_sunshine]

Welcome to Greekchat, Aislynn! I just wanted to tell you that the last four letters of your screen name are the first four letters of my first name! And I'm totally feeling your comment! I'm 24 and I have no children, and most of the girls I knew from elementary, junior high, and high school have at least one child. And they all ask me when I'm going to have some. I tell them, "When I have my own place, I'm married, I'm a lawyer and out of NYS!" I know maybe three or four girls that I can think of right now that don't have kids. One I hang out with sometimes whenever we can, one has a good job in Manhattan and she graduated college, and one just graduated from law school and passed the Bar exam. All them girls that had kids when they were teens are struggling to make ends meet or trying to go back to school to get better jobs. I'm telling you, that short term pleasure isn't worth that long term pain!!! And always remember that YOU and GOD control your destiny, nobody else!

Sorry about the novel I just wrote, but that's the ray of sunshine I wanted to share with you!!!