While none of this advice is bad, I got the impression that suzieQ isn't making any strong judgements now and was only relating what she'd seen and felt at the time. While it's not outside the realm of possibility that someone would hold something on here against her, I don't feel like she said anything actually bad.
I suspect in the fall when she is presented with X number of houses that have annexes and QRS who's under contruction, etc. she'll find that the sisters and not the houses are more important.
And suzieQ i wish you all the luck!
(And I'm going to say goooo Violet, since I'm biased... though I'm sure that Violet is going to be one of the non-violet using sororities.... oh well.)