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I was not in a NPC but i can tell you what my opinion would be.
i do get the feeling that you are excited about joinin a sorority, but your honest comment could be taken as bad.
Such as:
about the house remodeling, well what if going through recruitment your first choice house (abc) hears/reads what you wrote about this other house (def). Well abc could be thinking hey we are going to remodel our house in two years, so if she does not like dealing with remodeling issues then will she quite when we remodel. This possible could get you droped from an invite list.
Now this might not be true, but someone could possible be thinking this and if they have to cut someone this is just a good a reason as anything.
Okay and lets take the example that someone else mentioned. Let us say that you said, I don't like XYZ because they seem to concerned about grades. Well, what if a sorority is trying to improve their grades or they could take this statement as oh, i don't really care about grades.
Where none of these statments might actually be things you would say, but i can tell you that someone could think them and one persons bad opinion of you, mistake or not, could mean the difference between getting an invite back to another party of getting a bid. I think everyone in life has meet at least one person who toke what they said incorrectly and i think that what the people on this board is trying to warn you against is positing to much info that could lead you to be identified and then bad things could happen.
Plus, good luck and hi from southwest washington.
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