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Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
I wouldn't transer any separately-acquired assets. He can keep his stuff as well.
Keeping it separate. Mine is Mine. His is His. Ours is Ours.
I'm not paying any household bills. Either it would be totally traditional where I wouldn't work at all and I took care of the household and children and did lots of big community service type things. OR If I worked, my salary would be my personal spending money. Otherwise it is a no-go.
I don't think so. I just feel like, I've tried things the other way around and it didn't work for me. So I wouldn't waste time trying to go the 50/50 (which never really is 50/50) route again. I'm cool on that. I wouldn't love my mate any less or distrust them any more. I know what wouldn't work for me. At the same time I am not dying to be married like most single, never-before-married people, so if I couldn't get things the way I want them, I'm good with being single...we could just date. 
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Wow you are starting to sound like my mother. Divorce has made her like this too
