I don't see myself resorting to violence (well...I could definitely thrown some stuff against a wall maybe). But I would be heartbroken.
It's a betrayal of trust. Absolutely. There is no way that you can get physically involved with someone and not have some emotional issues arise. Even if you say you HATE the other person but they were just physically attractive, then you have emotional issues with your partner, because obviously you weren't happy enough with that relationship. Something was lacking or insufficient for you.
I am always a very flexible girlfriend. I don't nag him, or waste time yelling for stupid stuff. You want to spend a night out with your guys? Fine, I'm going out with my friends, no problem, have fun, talk to you later. HOWEVER, I CANNOT tolerate dishonesty. And that's what cheating is - it's the definition of dishonesty. I seriously doubt I'd be able to forgive a guy if he slept with someone else. It would tear me up.
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