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Originally posted by adpiucf
SuzyQ, your honest opinions are your honest opinions, but it already appears like you have written off the chapter whose house is under renovation. That could mean they would write you off because you have indicated you're not interested... I would guarantee there are women from your school on this board who know who you are and can report back to their sororities what you have posted. It may not be fair, and while we all want honest members, we also want members who know when to be discreet.
In recruitment, it is so important to maximize every option available, because you may not get invitations to your favorites every day, and with each day of recruitment, a chapter that may have not been high on your list of interests may swoop in and capture your heart (making things like home repairs totally irrelevant).
Good luck with recruitment! This post is in no way meant to be unkind, but you may want to consider recording such intimate observations and preferences offline in a journal rather than posting them online for the world to see. As others have mentioned, it is not hard to figure out who a PNM is... and your comments on GC or other sites can affect your recruitment negatively. We don't want to see you come into your first day of recruitment with houses already having a bias against you!
I hope you'll consider deleting your thread or editing it so any bias is removed. We want you to have a productive and successful recruitment, and all the posters in this thread are only trying to help you achieve your goal! Good luck.
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adpiucf is right, suzieQ. Give all the houses a chance. You might change your mind about them. There's a difference between April and September.
Also, posting not-so-good comments will have you possibly cut severely from recruitment. So like what the others have said, BE DISCREET. You haven't said anything bad at all. But watch out.