Gracie,
I agree with you 100%. I too have been there. I too have survied and forgiven my rapist as well as myself and because of this, I feel I am a happy, well adjusted person. Pointing the finger of blame for as long as it has been is only hindering her recovery, in my opinion. Inner peace and maturity comes from forgiveness and taking responsibility for your own happiness, again in my opinion. Gracie, you have demonstrated this with your post and I am proud to call you my Sister.
LICO,
Amy
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