The "new" group...
I have seen over the years how the students in HS behave and how their character/integrity almost ceases to exist. These students go on to matriculate on college campuses and eventually join our orgs with the same issues, plus more.
Having to work with HSers EVERYDAY AND deal with UGs IS TOO MUCH! It's like it's one in the same. That's why my days of dealing with the UGs are OVA! I'm too old for it. It's a new day and I don't like some things that go on, nor do I like the lack of integrity/character of some individuals. I've witnessed the dissing.. A few of us wanted to take it back a few years, but realized we had to serve as models to our UGs who had a diss free show.
I'm not going to have a coronary b/c of someone's daughter or son...Soror, Frat,Delta, Zeta, SigmaGammaRho, Kappa, DeltaZeta, HaterPhiOrg or GDI.
On that note...what do the graduate advisors say about all of this "beefing" and the criss crossing of colors? Is that another thread? 
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