I completely agree! My boyfriend is very conscientous and considerate but he does forget sometimes. When I remind him that I really appreciate it, he goes all out. I think men like the praise that we give. Also, reciprocity is a must!
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I sincerely believe that chivalry is alive and well. I've had many men do chivalrous things for me, and these are just casual acquaintances in church, at school, and in the community. I appreciate it and encourage it.
I am a firm believer that people will only treat you how you allow them to and if you tell your mate that you appreciate chivalry, they will respond, if they are into your needs. My husband is great at chivalry. So all bruthas are not without chivalry, some just need help knowing our needs and likes. But I also believe it should go both ways like in A Bronx Tale. The woman should reach over on unlock the door or open the door for her man as he did for her. Reciprocity goes a long way in a relationship.
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