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Old 04-24-2006, 04:20 PM
SigmaPezY60 SigmaPezY60 is offline
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I agree with my fellow Local Soror. I know that my sorority would be very hesitant for the simple fact that being a part of a sorority is not like a club that you can quit and just join another one if you don't like it.

Before initiation you have a new member/associate member/ etc process. During this process you get to know the traditions of your chapter and sisterhood. You learn the history, participate in activities with the members. If you don't feel that you belong, then you have the option to quit pledging before initiation. Sure it is totally different when you are a member, because you are even more involved....but in life you make decisions make sure you chose wisely.

If you were just initiated, then I say don't quit. Obviously you accepted your bid for a reason, and continued with the new member process for a reason as well. If you have concerns about your sorority not being what you thought it was during the NM process-talk to your sisters about how you can change that. Chances are if this is the case it will keep happening and weaken your chapter.

Don't quit...just get involved and take pride in your decisions-because you wouldn't have decided to join if you didn't want to be part of the organization.
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