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Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
I was unable to go undergrad for a number of reasons. At the time, I felt like I was missing out on something, but my desire to become a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha didn't wane. I loved the ORGANIZATION, not the local chapter, not all of the undergrad hype. That is what it seems that you are caught up in. Now that I've gone grad, I know that it was the best thing for me. AKA came into my life at the perfect time. I wouldn't trade my line sisters or my experiences thus far for anything. If I could go back and go undergrad I wouldn't, just because I love my line sisters and my chapter that much. I think that the undergrad experience would've been much DIFFERENT, but not necessarily BETTER. Either way, being unable (for whatever reasons) to pledge undergrad should not be a determining factor in which organization you decide to pursue. You, my friend, are worried about the WRONG thing. Get it together.
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Speak on it Soror!
Perhaps you should be taking some time to evaluate why you want to become a member of any fraternity. There is so much more at stake than strolling and being seen on the yard so to speak. There is work to be done! So why bother joining if #1 if you have interest in #2 and vice versa. Save yourself the time and trouble and join a club. Maybe time and maturity will help you along the way.