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Originally posted by btb87
RM, sometimes you need to leave well enough alone.
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That IMHO is part of the problem; it has led to a lot of passive-aggresive behavior that IMHO is not godly, and should be stopped NOW
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If you went to the woman to try to reconcile your differences, and she wasn't responding the way you think she was, and if you know you did everything you were supposed to do short of stalking her, then leave it alone. She obviously doesn't want to be bothered, or to re-establish that relationship. And I'm not trying to single you out or embarrass you, but if you're having all these problems, have you taken a look at your "technique" to see if it's something wrong that YOU'RE doing?
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That's entirely possible, hence the need for mediation. If I'm gonna be called a moron for trying to make things right, I want it done by an impartial party that knows both of us well and can look at a heart with spiritual eyes.
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There are still a lot of good women out there. But if you're going around with a placard with "Looking for a Proverbs 31 woman" on it, then you're likely not going to find her that way...
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I'm not looking for ANYONE, and haven't in over 2 years. That in part accounts for my finding that discussion board and writing off Western women as a loss.
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...Are you being the Godly man that you're supposed to be? You work on Rainman, or rather let God work on you, while allowing Him also to handle the rest. Did you read also in that chapter that "her husband is known in the gates. . ."? How are YOU known? Are you known for being a Godly witness, or someone just taking up space in the pew? You might not be quite as ready for that Proverbs 31 woman as you think.
Just my Monday morning thoughts. . .
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'Preciate it.
