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Old 04-24-2006, 09:02 AM
adpiucf adpiucf is offline
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Cancel your membership. This means you are no longer a member and cannot wear letters or attend any sort of membership functions or events. You can,of course, be friends with the members!

Once initiated, you can't join another NPC. If you joined a local sorority (one that does not have any other chapters at any other universities), you are eligible to join another local sorority, depending on the rules of that local sorority you are seeking to join.

Cut your losses and get involved on campus in another activity. I understand that you feel you don't fit in, but honestly, and in my experence, unless your sorority is composed of 10 or less members, every sorority on campus has diverse members and you can fit in or not fit in as a matter of choice. What is it you dislike so much about your organization?

Have you passively waited by the phone, hoping people will call and invite you out? Friendship is a two-way street, and just because you can call someone your "sister" does not entitle her to be your friend.

If you haven't made an effort to know the members, do try. Talk to your big sister or another older member and give it a go. If you are totally opposed to this, or there are other (unethical) things going on, then cancel your membership.

Talk to your chapter president on cancellation procedures-- you may need to submit a formal dated letter and have any loose ends tied up (ie: current on dues as of the date of your letter) before you can be officially out.
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