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Originally posted by Honeykiss1974
And Rainman, I will clarify - you have an issue with black western women. Apparently, you've dated them all and have determined that we are all alike.
Sorry, but I have no compassion for people that think like you. Its no different than some white people who go around thinking all blacks steal, are lazy, on welfare, or whatever...simply based on a FEW experiences that they've had. If we all know that that type of thinking in flawed in terms of race, why is it not in terms of catergorizing all black western women?
Shoot, the posts in this thread alone should tell you that we ARE NOT all alike. But anyway....
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HK, lemme explain what prompted all this to begin with:
Last summer I found an online discussion forum that discussed the issues (personal, professional, and romantic) that American men had with American women. I got into some of the discussions and was able to relate in some respects, but it wasn't until an incident with who I thought was the epitome of a Proverbs 31 woman (something very minor and trivial that I did out of love got blown out of proportion, in a nutshell) occured Christmas of last year that sealed the deal for me and had me sold that AWs were, well incorrigible.
Fast forward to today. Myself and the young lady did not speak to each other for 4 months, though I will tell you that my motives for not speaking was out of a growing hate for her (and a high resentment for women in general). So today, during our worship, we were told to lift the burden of heaviness, which God prompted me that my heaviness burden was b/t myself and her, and that I should try and reconcile our differences. Well, after service I did that and was rewarded with the most vile and nasty attitude I had ever seen in all the 7 years I had known her.
So I go to my pastor and try to explain what had happened and about my resentment with AWs and feminism. He said that I should find an associate pastor and arrange a spiritual mediation b/t myself and her to find out what the core problem is. He also said that he himself at one time had a problem with black women after he was divorced from his first wife, and that his 2nd wife reinstated his love and trust in black women. I say that only because I think God is trying to tell me something. Whatever that is remains to be seen.
Anyway...we'll see what happens.
Talk to you later
