[AXEAM]

Originally posted by enigma_AKA
AXEAM-
We do. You all have your braniac engineer/jock/Que () personalities that overwhelm us at times, but I think for a lot of us, we more or less *expect* you all to have these attitudes. It's socially more acceptable for men to brag on themselves, flaunt their accomplishments, etc. At least that's what I've observed.

All of that it IS annoying but we say "Ok, , moving right along..."Now if you get too 'caught up', as they say, in yourself, well, we know that a relationship will not fit into your mold.

My point to RainMan was basically, it isn't a BLACK woman thing, it's a woman thing or specifically, the women he finds (or whatever). If you keep finding lame ass partners, it's because you are yourself lame. Whether they be a Czech lame or a Boo-ga-da-boo-boo lame, it's all the same. You are what/who you attract--it's a perpetuating cycle.

enigma_AKA

Okay I agree b/c I also wonder about people men & women who keep finding the same kind of messed up mates over & over again......maybe if they took a moment they would see that . (They are just as messed up as the mates they choose.)