Ahhh, stereotypes and misconceptions abound in here.

Too many that are so ridiculous and lack common sense that I don't even have the energy to address them.
And Rainman, I will clarify - you have an issue with black western women. Apparently, you've dated them all and have determined that we are all alike.
Sorry, but I have no compassion for people that think like you. Its no different than some white people who go around thinking all blacks steal, are lazy, on welfare, or whatever...simply based on a FEW experiences that they've had. If we all know that that type of thinking in flawed in terms of race, why is it not in terms of catergorizing all black western women?
Shoot, the posts in this thread alone should tell you that we ARE NOT all alike. But anyway....