Ummm Okay... So, what do you need in return from him?

I mean, there is nothing wrong with catering to your man but don't you have needs as a woman?? I feel that this is the reason why so many women end up being so attached to guys because they revolve their lives around their men.
Also, I read that couples must submit to one another but for some reason people neglect to point that out but whatever. And there is a difference between submissive and submit.