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Hey, everyone !!! This is what I just wrote in her blog...
I have a bone to pick with Veronica!!! I am a 26 year old African-American female. Oh, and forgot to mention, single LOL. Some day I aspire to be a great wife and mother. But I am not the "submissive" type who does whatever anyone tells her to do. I also believe that household chores should be shared with whomever lives in the house. I cook because I love food, NOT because it is my job!! I clean because I was taught that cleanliness is Godliness, So I have a problem cleaning up after "grown folk" esp. if you are not disabled mentally or physically. I believe that I will be able to balance my career and home life but I KNOW that I will not be able to do all of that without the support of a good husband. As far as his needs are concerned... I'll be there to take care of them BUT he has to meet my needs as well! I foreone am a very visual person so he should maybe dress nice for me in the bedroom. Of course, I'll do the same although I hate anything lacy.
Now, I agree with somethings that you have had to say but I will never, ever, EVER...completely give myself to someone unless they are prepared to do the same!! I'm tired of women doing all these things and get nothing in return!!! Yea, I think you are letting men off the hook just like the rest of society has done. What about my needs? Why should I put my needs aside for someone who could careless about fulfilling mine! I better leave before I get in trouble lol
p.s. If you know any man that loves to cooks. Send him my way!
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