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Pardon me for crashing.
Shannan you're heart was in the right place when you wanted to share with the other BM's and MOH the details. I'd write just one last email to the MOH. Thank her for her opinion but inform her that as the hostess, YOU have the situation under control as well as the guest list. She can do what she wants with her favors but you won't be using them. Your decision is final. Kindly remind her this is about THE BRIDE and not her. Just tell her when it is and all she has to do is show up or not. Nothing more and nothing less. Delete her future emails if they show up in your mailbox.
If she feels so inclined, encourage the MOH to host another event involving her choices as to the butcher, baker, and candlestick maker.
Let the bride know that you know its her shower and that you'll try to make it as stress free as possible for her and her mom. Apologize to the bride if the MOH tries to involve her in any more long distance mini-drama. You have the invitations and everything else under control. All she has to do is show up and have fun.
You'll do a great job.
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