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Originally posted by JocelynC
I understand a guy not wanting to live in an Alpha Xi shrine, since you're sharing your house together. But I don't think he'd be opposed to keeping a few things for display (maybe your paddles, pin box, quilt, or things like that).
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Jocelyn, I agree with what you're saying and have recently been down that road. I would have several things hanging in my home Sigma Nu related, but don't since it's "our" home. Each of us have equal veto power over the walls. She doesn't get to hang up pictures of cats, I don't get to hang up Sigma Nu stuff.
When we get a house this summer, and I have one of the spare bedrooms for "my stuff," then I'll hang some Sigma Nu stuff in there no doubt.
But until then, we've actually done quite well acquiring things that we both like for decorative purposes.
That's one of the big challenges of living together. It's no longer "my" stuff, it's "our" stuff.
If fiancé's demands are one way, there might be a problem. Otherwise, this question needs not be asked.