Ohmygosh!!!! Yuck yuck yuck...okay, so maybe I am a huge prude, but I have never been in a situation where I needed to choose spit or swallow, but I really think that I would barf/gag, so I don't think it would be a "choice". I think that whenever that happens, I am going to be very surprised...hopefully he will give me the "heads up" for lack of a better term