[Bajan_Delta]

Well thank you my dear for the well wishes. Actually the more we think about it the more we are both liking the idea of a destination wedding. If we do that we can get married sooner and be able to buy a home alot quicker. This could work out

Originally posted by lil_sunshine
Dearest Bajan_Delta,

First, I'd like to congratulate you on your engagement. I know this is an exciting time for you and your fiance!!! Also, I'd like to tell you that there will always be people (family, friends and strangers alike) who will try to steal your sunshine. Please do not allow them to do so.

Destination weddings are a beautiful thing! If you and your fiance agree to do that, then by all means. The people that should attend are the ones that will cause you the least stress and are the most genuine about their well wishes for you and your husband-to-be. Your wedding day is not the be all and end all of family gatherings. It is just the day when you and your fiance tell the world that you are willing to commit to spending the rest of your lives together. Whoever cannot understand that, tell them, "FUHGEDDABOUTIT!!!!!!"