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Originally posted by SweetyD
Ok.. my ex's fraternity and my sorority hang out a lot (one of my sisters is his chapters "dream girl" this year too) and we've just recently broke up.. the hard part is I don't want to seem rude to the rest of his brothers because I really do like them.. but it's so hard for me to go to mixers with them.. especially if they are at the fraternity houe because I used to stay there so much.

I just don't know to do.. I need time to get over the whole thing, but I don't want to seem rude or angry at the rest of the guys because of the emotions I'm going through right now.

I would stay away from the house and his brothers for awhile. If you don't, you'll make things awkward. Your feelings could get the best of you one night while you're over there and cause you to do something dumb. You could get pegged as "Billy Bob's crazy ex who starts drama".

Example:

I had a sister who dated a guy in a certain fraternity for like 2 years. She loved the guys (our chapter hangs out with these guys alot), so she'd still go over there after they broke up. She and the guy tried to be nice to each other whenever they saw each other at his fraternity house.

About 2 months after they broke up, she went over there with some sisters for a party. Of course, the guy (being newly single) was there with a girl that he'd just started seeing and they were making out and stuff. Well my sister saw him making out with this girl and freaked out. She was a little tipsy and obviously jealous. She called this girl all types of horrible names and spilled a drink on her. As a result, she got pegged a "drama starter" and got pretty much banned from there.