I have the veil to match- the fingertip length with red edging. I'm trying to decide if I want to exchange it for the cathedral length, but I almost think that would take away from the dress.
I have a garnet/ruby/amethest brooch that belonged to the great-aunt I was named after that I am going to wear in my hair somehow. I think a soft curly french-twisty type 'do with the brooch on the side. Nothing too "fixed". Believe me, when it's all over, I will post TONS of pics for y'all to look at
