Well stated Soror Prettypoodle,
Men, especially black men, don't need anymore black women doing everything for them when it comes to asking the woman he loves such an important life changing question. Brothers I have too much respect for you to just let you go out like that! Sistas we need to be more patient and wait for that special moment to happen. Now don't get me wrong we shouldn't have to wait for 5 or 10 years to hear those special words from our significant others. If he's waiting until eternity sorors and friends it's time to move on!
That's just my 22 cents!
Serioussigma22
