I have a friend of xyz organization who was in a similar situation, except this particular prospect was trying to join her chapter. Back in undergrad this girl would be seen perping like she was a member of another organization , but she never got in legitimately. So my friend was surprised to see her seeking membership in her organization's graduate chapter. I guess near the end of the selection process my friend decided to speak up and my friend got ousted as a troublemaker. She was also fussed at for waiting so long to speak up. Ever since then my friend's relationship with her chapter has been strained and she has distanced herself from them. Meanwhile there was a halt and investigation on this prospect. She ended up joining that chapter of xyz during the next intake process, if not the one where she she put on spot. I am sure it was more to the story about my friend's relationship with her own chapter than she let on. I guess in the end regardless of all input, the chapter has the final say.
Last edited by chrini; 04-13-2006 at 07:46 PM.
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