[AKA_Monet]

Originally posted by Bajan_Delta
We are thinking about having the wedding summer 2008. I've waited 5 years, I can wait 2 more. We have started looking into some things so we know how much money we will need to save. So far we can't agree on a color scheme. Of course I said crimson and creme, he said hell no. Actual his AKA sister says she's not coming to a red and white wedding I'm going to miss her being there

Girl as for the family acking a fool, I'm not worried, cause I'm paying for the wedding. Anybody ack up, they will be told off with the swiftness. My wedding, My money, my say-so. Can't deal with that? Tough nuggies. They don't like anything, they don't need to come. The only person that needs to be there is my mother and she is a very reasonable person. I'm also not worried about people showing up that didn't RSVP cause we not inviting that many people cause we don't know that many people. But I will take any words of advise you or others here on GC has to offer. I know myself and somebody gonna get told off before this thing is through

You can't have it during the summer of 2008 Can't you wait just a little bit longer and have either late Spring or early Fall

Anyhow, nothin's wrong with your chosen color scheme...

Yeah, sounds like you may as well have a beautiful destination wedding waaaay out in the South Pacific somewhere--where no fools would dare to attend... Besides it would be beautiful for a smallish--like 25 people and under... Like Thailand or Fiji... Or you could go to Europe--like South of France or do it in Spain/Portugal... Hayle, do it in the Canaries off the coast of Africa.

Not to sound silly, but I'd avoid the Carribean unless you absolutely have to... Then, if you do, I'd hire guards with a guest list in a castle... I know you are from one of the islands--lemme just tell you, no matter how hard you try, folks just ack a fool during a wedding... Just how it is...

That's why if you do it far and away, then they can still ack a fool, but at least you have a beautiful time in a beautiful place with those you love...