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Originally posted by silent helper
For brothers in co ed chapters is it kool if we call gamma sigs sorors even though we are girls in a APO?
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Hmmm...well...I wouldn't say all that.
Truthfully, some of my sorors WOULDN'T like that and would never address you as "frat". Not all, but SOME. I wouldn't. Actually I'd bristle up a little bit if you called me "soror" and you were a female. When I came in I was taught that the "bruh" and "soror" exchange was just between APO men and GSS women. Call it old age I guess, but I'd never call you "frat". No disrespect, I just think that's a term for guys.
I know a couple of APO members that are female, and we are very cool (hey Attractive!!) like that...however...we do not address each other as "frat" or "soror". I might be like "Hey Girl, what's up" or something to that effect and exchange a hug. I'm not a jerk. I'll speak to you if you speak to me, but to be real I've seen my sorors completely ignore APO female members and go STRAIGHT to the guys, and I'm not personally cool with that.
I'm not saying it's all THAT serious because it's not...but I did want to clarify. Most of the time it's on that soror on how she wants to receive you on that level.