We are thinking about having the wedding summer 2008. I've waited 5 years, I can wait 2 more. We have started looking into some things so we know how much money we will need to save. So far we can't agree on a color scheme. Of course I said crimson and creme, he said hell no. Actual his AKA sister says she's not coming to a red and white wedding
I'm going to miss her being there
Girl as for the family acking a fool, I'm not worried, cause I'm paying for the wedding. Anybody ack up, they will be told off with the swiftness. My wedding, My money, my say-so. Can't deal with that? Tough nuggies. They don't like anything, they don't need to come. The only person that needs to be there is my mother and she is a very reasonable person. I'm also not worried about people showing up that didn't RSVP cause we not inviting that many people cause we don't know that many people. But I will take any words of advise you or others here on GC has to offer. I know myself and somebody gonna get told off before this thing is through
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Originally posted by AKA_Monet
Here I'm thinking you're around 30-something... Gwirrl you got all the time in the world!!! Good for you for taking it, because it could be a lot more BS... I know, I've been with enough fools to know...
Now actually planning the big event? Do you have to? Like is it expected. 'Cuz I'm tellin' yah, a destination event or a true dyed in the wool elopement is a good one... But you cannot have a family that has to be all up in it and willing to ack a fool...
My folks were already ackin' a fool after the my poor husband asked my dad for my hand in marriage... Like talkin' 500 people showin' up at the door who DID NOT RSVP...
And websites are fine... But folks still ack a fool and cut up...
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