Hey Erika, I don't think ANYONE on this thread has any shame left. So don't worry 'bout it!!
But since I have been pretty quiet, I will throw in my 2 cents-This guy I dated a looooooong time ago is now back in my life, and he shaves EVERYTHING. Yep-and let me tell you , that is a first for me. And I don't think I like it, personally. But, I love him, so its ok.
And as for the oral communications-oh yeah, you give to get, I believe in equal opportunity, as I am sure all the men probaly do too!!