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Originally posted by DC_Zeta1920
PREACH IT!!!
Alot of people are more in love with the wedding as opposed to the marriage itself and I had an associate like that. Sad to say, they were separated within 6 months and later divorced. People need to realize that a marriage is not like a bf/gf relationship, its a totally different ballgame. My fiance and I will be going to counseling. No counseling=no wedding ceremony. I can't continue forward without it.
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I can't imagine not having premarital counseling. Many people say that it is really vital to the success of the marriage. I've heard the first 18 months are a deal breaker. And most people have said that counseling really opened their eyes. It's really easy to be all starry eyed and romantic, but you know there will be times where you want to chokeslam your future hubby. LOL!
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And about your cousin, thats not the first I have heard of that. I think its really sad that these women out here have good men, but dont know how to treat them. Yet there are so many great women who would love to be in her position. I guess because sometimes the men stay, they think they can run all over them and everything is gravy.
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I can't see how women stay with some of these losers
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To all of those women who treat their men like crap, please find a man who will whisper sweet nothings in your ear and proceed to eff you over. At that point you shall realize what you used to have, and furthermore, you can't have it back. Sorry to go off on a tangent like that, but that ish sickens me. [/B]
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LOL. See... I don't really know any women who just henpeck their men to death. I know more who put up with BS.