Since I was the one who started that bikini line trim tangent & everyone has been so forthcoming with their own likes/dislikes, I might as well thow myself into the mix.
I have always been thankful to be in a monogomous relationship b/c I prefer the "brazilian mohawk" & I assumed that other guys would be freaked out to see a near-bald nether region.
Going back to the begining of the thread, I can't answer the question about comparing size vs technique. I've only been with 1 person. I might be bringing this thread up in the future b/c I've been having that "but he'll never find out" thought more than I should be.
That's probably best left for another thread
"Oral communication" is wonderful. Guys, if you don't do it you should! I do understand those ladies who've said they don't feel comfy letting any old guy go down on them. If I ever act on that "he'll never find out" thought, I don't know if I'd let the new guy go down on me. I'll be sure to update everyone on my new found info if that situation ever occurs.
Premarital relations. I'm clearly not married & have clearly had relations. As long as it's healthy sex, I don't really care. I have had friends do it so that they could feel better about themselves, hang out with the big man on campus & other not-so-great reasons and later regretted it. To each his own.
If I forgot to reply regarding anything else, I'll edit this post later.
Heidi