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Honestly, I think it sounds like your sister might be depressed - a major breakup can shake your confidence in everything, and that could be part of the reason that is she creating drama and trying to get attention. You might (lovingly) recommend that she talk to someone at your campus counseling center or another trained professional of her choice.
On the subject of a bad back, going to the doctor really isn't all that helpful - back injuries are often nebulous and very difficult to treat. A physical therapist might be able to recommend exercises to strengthen her abs/lower back to prevent back pain. Plus, exercise is good for depression too!
Also, the expression is typically "nipped in the bud" not nipped in the butt. That one made me giggle.
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