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Originally posted by BrnSuga
Personally, I am happily married to a wonderful man. I honestly feel that when I got fed up with being dogged by pretty boys who drove nice cars who didn't give a rats azz about me, that's when I met MY BLESSING. My husband is wonderful and truly a blessing from GOD but, had I not gone through what I went through in past relationships I wouldn't be able to appreciate what I have now.
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This essentially sums up my situation as well. Except it wasn't boys driving nice cars, it was the guys I grew up with in the MacGregor area of Houston who came from 2 parent, 2 career, 2 sometimes 3 and 4 degreed homes with no want for money who thought they were God's gift because of all of that. When I finally stepped outside of my neat little upper middle class box, I found my loving wonderful husband who is in the military and comes from a military family (something that was completely foreign to me as a descendant of 3 generations of business owners)....and I could not be happier.
I agree, some sistahs do need to open their eyes and their hearts. I was one of them, and I thank God daily that I did.