James, my heart is fluttering......where were you when I was still looking?????? Not that I don't adore what I have, but man!!!!! Since you are apparently not a girl masquerading as a guy, I come to the inescapable conclusion that you are every woman's dream!!!!!! You will make some lucky girl very happy someday. (And don't worry about losing your guy card. You friends will be eternally envious of your beautiful adoring wife and your endless happiness with all the reciprocal adoration she will lavish upon you!!!!!!)