All this talk makes me miss my boy...who I just saw yesterday. Oh well...
Anyway, I really think it's best to wait until you've found that right person. I've found that the sentiment, at least to my college friends, sounds really conservative, but they often end up regretting their adventures. When you know, you KNOW.
Moving on "downtown"...I love it.
Some people don't...it may be due to discomfort with sexuality, etc., or it could be that it just doesn't do anything for them. I used to be the latter. Something happened, I don't know what, but now I could seriously have it every day. I'm glad because I'm with someone who is even more enthusiastic about it than I am!
Oh yeah, the subject line. You know, I really don't know. I just don't know. I think it definitely has to do with the size of the lady. But, maybe I'm wrong.