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Originally posted by Angel11E01
And what about building with folks? That's what our parents used to do. I know I am nowhere near my realized potential, neither is my honey. But .... we support each other in our endeavors.
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Well I think it is hard for some people when they have had to go it alone for so long... It is a matter of trust, delegating and cooperation.
And these days, depending on where you live and how you want to live, it is hard for a young couple to start out to make a family. Back in the day, couples could easily purchase a starter home, afford the mortgage, etc. But nowadays, couples would be lucky to live in a pumpkin shell.
If anything, I do highly recommend seeing a bonafide financial planner with the formation of a pre-nuptual or partnership agreement. Then, I would request all my guests to give me money rather than gifts to go toward the mortgage downpayment.
The issue is setting realistic goals together and separately at the same time.