I don't want a man in great shape either.... they're nice to look at, but when it comes down to it, I want something to hold onto at night
I'm all about the cuddling....
Also, he needs a great sense of humor, not afraid to be a complete goofball with me and not make me feel dumb when I act like a complete goofball, hate mushrooms, hate the Yankees and the Steelers, love to eat, like outdoorsy stuff but also be perfectly happy to spend the day in bed, like children- no, scratch that, LOVE children (there's nothing sexier than a guy who likes and is good with kids), not own anything Prada, someone who drops the forehead kiss, likes dogs better than cats, knows Pablo Neruda, especially Sonnet XVII, familiar with a wide range of literature, know how to change the oil in my car, loves his family, loves my family, will take me dancing, knows something about wine, has a great smile, loves old movies, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink rum when he knows we'll be making out later, likes freckles and red hair, respects me, thinks I'm gorgeous, wants to kiss me and love me and marry me!
I'll probably think of more, but does that cover it for now?