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Old 03-30-2006, 03:15 AM
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Well I recently broke up with my bf of almost 4 years too (going on 2 months) and we have not spoken a word since and a lot of my stuff is still at his place. My father had open heart surgery and he did not call. He knew about it. He did not call. He is bi polar and unmedicated and it is amazing to me how much you can love someone and yet be happier without them.

Now all that backstory was to say this: It sounds like you've handled yourself with a lot of class and dignity. It is hard to break off such a long relationship and maintain no contact, no matter what the circumstances of the breakup are.

I'd feel the same, I would not want to respond and I don't think there is anything wrong with that, but... I have to admit, I'd probably send back a simple "thank you" as I think that would maintain my dignity and class. I would not invite further emails and probably not answer further emails.

He did not treat you right. Keep moving on and following your own dreams.
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