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Originally posted by DPiece7
...he said, "why are u so worked up, i mean a man can bring std's home from cheating on you with a female." and yes that is true indeed, but the difference is that men are more likely to have UNPROTECTED sex when cheating with men than with other women. what is so devastating about this ish is that because these men are in denial about their sexual intentions, they dont use condoms when having sex with men because "bringing condoms would be like admitting that they went there to have sex with men."...so you're gonna put your life and the life of your loved ones on the line because you're too chicken shit to admit that you like men?!?!?! its bad enough that you're cheating (and with a man at that!) but then you're bringing ish home too?!?!
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I dunno know about that... Men having more unprotected sex if they have sex with other men... I think that no matter who they are have sex with, they are having it unprotected, regardless of the gender. These men are selfish creatures either way. They develop intimate relationships with people that are misleading, and in denial fraught with dishonesty, then add cheating on the other person...
A man who lies generally will get caught in their lying... Same goes for a woman... The oh what webs we weave when we first try to deceive...
Okay, I KNOW I have been gullible and plain stoopid that I actually did think I fell of the turnip truck and was born yesterday... But, is it really that bad that we cannot tell when a man's lying to us? Because, I catch my husband in a minute if his story does sound straight--and I am judging by his actions, too. And if he was being freaky while he should be at work, then there would be "thangs" that would be obvious to me... Every move he makes, comments he says, smells, simplicities...
I mean, I know when a man has cheated on me, I know what that looks like when I was dating... Stories do not align properly and cut offs get made when I start to ask questions... As I got older, I was the one to break off the relationship if I thought it was shady. That was my defense mechanism I taught myself...
But my husband now would have to be a sheer genius in player skool pimp style--when I know he's a geeky nerd and folks at work would be more than happy to tell me all about his biness if he was actin' a fool... He'd lose too many jobs if he was actin' a fool...
Am I being naive or slow?