[Angel11E01]

Originally posted by AKA_Monet
I AGREE WITH THIS 1908%



Moreover, we many African American women may have gotten caught up back in the day with unplanned pregnancies and other items with that so called "experimentation"--due to this "revolution".



Moreover, it is the classic wanting the "cake" and "eating it", too syndrome, along with "why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free" attitude... Oh, they wanna sleep with you and get it on and say just about anything so that you will believe them. Hayle, you may wanna sleep with them! But the minute a woman starts talking about something more than "friends" with meaningfulness--oh, misogyny sets in. Alice Walker talks a bit about that in "You Can't Keep a Good Woman Down" and the views of Black women by Black men and its discrepancy when it comes to pornography... Oh they be lookin' and probably touchin', but definitely don't take a sistah seriously anymore than "friends with benefits".

Now a highly educated sistah can let her "dry season" set in and be happy with that, but the longing of "touch" is a very powerful thing.

There is another issue too, some of our Brothamen are not very sexually explicit--so to speak. Like they don't like to get busy. They actually DO like the mind-body connection--the spooning, the hugging, the kissing without sexual intercourse. Some of our Brotha's are shall I say, "visual learners"--the burlesque and playboy--they like to look and oogle and that's about it.

Sometimes our Brothaman, just wants to be heard or their senses "expanded"... It touches them in such a way that gives them a different viewpoint in life...

And some Sistahs are "cold fish". Oh they lie on their back and are not into gymnastics, making it uneventful for some men because of some perceived strictly conservative viewpoint of how sex should be done. There is no connection--and if anything, I find a lot of Sistahs have that capability to acheive a "sexual expansion"or tantra, but have little idea of how to use it...

Of course you might get called a "voodoo high priestess" if you actually do that kinna stuh...

woo chile. Did it just get really hot in here?
is there a blushing icon? LOL