whew...here we go...
1-HONEST (disgustingly honest...to the point where should would break my heart now so that she wouldn't see me cry more later on.)
2-concerned with her appearance and health- supermodel type body and looks not necessary , but it is a turn on to see someone concerned with the most important thing she has, her health
3- great communication - tell me when it's too slow, too fast, harder, softer, this way or that, communication, especially in a physical situation is waaaaaaay hot!
4- strong willed and independent, but not to a fault- I want her to be strong enough not to depend on her man, but not to the point that she feels weaker than me if she can cry to me.
5- in control with her friends- not to freak when her friends are being bitches, and not to model her life after theirs.
6- ability to appreciate and give good hugs and affection (this is so underrated it sucks) nothing...well..almost nothing...beats a good hug.
7- gotta be good with kids, since I want to have em at some point, she's gotta want to be a mommy, to experience it for herself and with me , so family is important
8- sports- again, not super important, but if she freaks if she chips a nail if we are play wrestlin or something, that would be annoying.
9- she should appreciate what she has and not want what everyone around her has. I mean, while I don't plan to be poor, i won't be a happy camper if she's bitching because the porsche is busted while the mercedes, which was last year's model, is now too old.
10- not afraid to be herself with me, however F*$KED up that may be. She should be able to tell me she loves me when she;s drunk, sober, whatever. Any insecurities, tell me, if I'm doing something wrong, tell me...this stretches back to the honesty thing i guess.
11- VERY IMPORTANT- music is key. If a girl is all of the above, and can make me a)cry by her signing to me or b) put me to sleep in her arms with a lullaby, i'm msot likely hers. Well...at least for that night anyway.
