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Freud said, "A woman is like a violin, it takes a great musician to play her well."

AlphaSigLana, I too feel that the act is far more intimate than merely inserting one body part into another. For many women, it takes a certain degree of trust and love that isn't found in the early stages of dating. There also is a difference between a man doing it TO you as compared to a man doing it FOR you. Don't give it a second thought. When you have complete trust in your partner you may see it in a different light. If you don't, no biggie. If there is love, he will understand you and help you face your inhibitions with tenderness. There are many roads that arrive at the same destination. The key is to explore the scenery and enjoy the journey.