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y'all going to hate me but I think there are ages that are "right" times for people to get married-- defined by the culture they grow up in and the people they hang around with (since your company does define who you are to an extent).
Ej: we think it's wrong to get married at 15, but that was commonplace 300 years ago (or what have you).
So, in a world where I am not considered an "adult" until I'm 30 (according to my financial aid office), it's kind of odd to think of me acutally having an adult life. Actually, getting married at 20 in my little subculture enclave would be crazy. However, if I had gotten a job right out of school at 18 and had started to support myself right away, that might be a different story.
So, I think you need to have done some growing up before you go hitching yourself to another person for the rest of your life. And most 20 year olds I know are a lot less mature than the 30 year olds I know (myself included). Sorry kids.
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