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Originally posted by James
We should all play nice.
Although I agree that you shouldn't have missed a meeting for a little nookie. Men wouldn't have been as sympathetic to a brother that did that.
My opinion here is mild and lazy . . I wouldn't have gotten real excited about you missing the meeting. Just would have thought it curious that someone with perfect attendance would blow off a meeting for something like that.
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It's because he lives in Virginia and I live in Atlanta. Most weekends he has to work (duty) or, I'm involved in other sorority stuff. We have to take the time we can. It's ridiculous. Every semester when I get the completed sorority calendar, I call him up and we mark on our calendars when he has duty and when i have sorority stuff. From there, whatever weekends we have "free" are when we get to spend together. If he had been just down the road, there would have been no questions to it - I would have been at chapter. But when I was buying my plane tickets to go to VA and back, I either had to leave at the ass crack of dawn on Sunday morning, or take a later flight that wouldnt quite bring be back to ATL in time to make it to the meeting. Because he was leaving for deployment, I made the decision to take the later flight.
I don't see why it's turned into as big a deal as everyone is making it. Unless you yourself have 100% attendance to everything (meetings, philanthropies, socials, open house, recruitment events, chapter retreats, etc etc etc) how DARE someone look down on me. Those of you who are have sick minds if you're just looking at it as a booty call. I've got more pride in myself than to treat my relationships as a piece of ass.