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Why do most people ASSume that if you date someone of the same race that you would automatically have a lot of things in common? Yes, unless you grew up around people who had a different racial background than you, chances are that you will have more in common with those of the same race, but it is not always the case. Same thing, the other way around, I don't think it is hard at all to find someone of another race who you have a lot in common. If someone is not into dating other races, fine. But, I don't think saying "Oh, we won't have anything in common" is a very good explanation.
As for the OP, no I don't think you're a racist if you're hesitant to date outside of your race. I do think it is a red flag, especially if you are attracted to people outside of your race. Not so much of a red flag for racism, but for caring too much of what others think of you or not willing to get out of your comfort zone.
And, I agree with Rudey, that you can still mess around with those of different races and still be prejudiced. Anyone watch daytime talkshows? It's not an uncommon topic.
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